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The Manager's Guide to Supporting Remote and Hybrid Teams

A practical guide to managing remote and hybrid teams with trust, inclusive meetings, async communication, and strategies to combat proximity bias.

Unmatched TeamMarch 15, 2025

Managing a team where some people are in the office, some are at home, and some are in a different time zone entirely is one of the most complex challenges in modern leadership. There is no playbook from five years ago that fully applies. The rules are being written in real time, and the managers who get it right will define the next era of work.

If you are leading a remote or hybrid team, this guide is for you. Not theory, not platitudes. Practical approaches that work.

Start With Trust, Not Surveillance

The single most important foundation for managing distributed teams is trust. And trust has to go both ways.

It can be tempting, especially when you cannot see your team working, to reach for monitoring tools, mandatory camera-on policies, or constant check-ins. Resist that impulse. Surveillance does not build performance. It erodes trust. And once trust is gone, everything else falls apart.

Instead, focus on:

  • Setting clear expectations about deliverables, timelines, and quality standards
  • Measuring outcomes, not hours logged or mouse movements
  • Giving people autonomy over how and when they do their best work
  • Assuming good intent when someone is not immediately responsive

This does not mean having no accountability. It means accountability is based on results, not visibility.

Master Asynchronous Communication

In a hybrid or remote environment, not everyone is online at the same time. That is not a problem to solve. It is a reality to design around.

Asynchronous communication means sharing information in a way that does not require an immediate response. Done well, it actually leads to better communication because people have time to think before they respond.

Best Practices for Async Communication

  • Write things down. Decisions, context, and rationale should live in shared documents, not in hallway conversations that remote team members miss.
  • Use threads and channels intentionally. Whether you use Slack, Teams, or another tool, organize conversations by topic so people can catch up efficiently.
  • Record meetings (with consent) and share notes so that people in different time zones can stay informed.
  • Set clear expectations about response times. Not everything is urgent. Define what is and what is not.
  • Default to long-form over short-form. A well-written message with full context saves everyone time compared to a chain of fifteen back-and-forth messages.

When to Go Synchronous

Async is not always the answer. Some conversations need real-time interaction:

  • Sensitive or emotional topics
  • Complex problem-solving that benefits from rapid back-and-forth
  • Team bonding and relationship building
  • Brainstorming sessions where energy and spontaneity matter

The skill is knowing which mode fits which situation.

Run Inclusive Meetings

Hybrid meetings, where some people are in a conference room and some are dialing in, are notoriously hard to get right. The people in the room tend to dominate, and remote participants become passive observers.

Here is how to make meetings genuinely inclusive:

  • Use the "all remote" approach for important meetings. If even one person is remote, consider having everyone join from their own device. This levels the playing field.
  • Assign a facilitator who actively monitors the chat and calls on remote participants by name.
  • Use a shared document for notes and questions so that everyone can contribute in real time, regardless of whether they are comfortable speaking up verbally.
  • Leave pauses. Video call latency means remote participants often get talked over. Build in deliberate pauses after questions.
  • Rotate meeting times if your team spans time zones, so the same people are not always the ones joining at inconvenient hours.

Combat Proximity Bias

Proximity bias is the tendency to favor people you see in person over those who work remotely. It is not usually intentional, but it is real and it has consequences.

People in the office are more likely to be thought of for promotions, high-visibility projects, and informal mentorship. Remote employees can become invisible, not because their work is worse, but because they are not physically present when decisions are made.

Here is how to fight it:

  • Evaluate performance based on documented outcomes, not impressions from casual office interactions
  • Distribute high-visibility projects equitably between in-office and remote team members
  • Be intentional about development conversations with remote employees, since they will not happen organically in the hallway
  • Track promotion and advancement data by work location to see if patterns emerge
  • Advocate visibly for your remote team members in leadership discussions

Maintain Team Culture Without a Shared Office

Culture does not require a physical space, but it does require intentionality. When your team is distributed, the informal moments that build connection, lunch together, coffee chats, spontaneous whiteboard sessions, do not happen on their own. You have to create space for them.

Rituals That Work

  • Virtual coffee chats. Short, optional, no-agenda conversations between random pairs of team members. Keep them lightweight and voluntary.
  • Weekly team standups that include a personal check-in question alongside work updates.
  • Shared channels for non-work interests like books, cooking, pets, or music. Let people be whole humans at work.
  • Quarterly or biannual in-person gatherings if budget allows. Even distributed teams benefit from periodic face time. Use these for relationship building and strategic planning, not day-to-day work.
  • Celebrating wins publicly. Recognition is even more important when people cannot see the impact of their work firsthand.

What to Avoid

  • Forced fun that feels like an obligation
  • Activities that only work well for people in the office
  • Treating culture as a program rather than a daily practice

Measure Output, Not Hours

One of the biggest mindset shifts for hybrid managers is moving from time-based management to outcome-based management. If someone delivers excellent work in six focused hours, that is better than eight distracted hours at a desk.

To make this work:

  • Define clear deliverables and success criteria for every project and role
  • Use regular check-ins to discuss progress and remove blockers, not to monitor activity
  • Trust your team to manage their own time, especially if they are balancing different time zones or personal responsibilities
  • Evaluate fairly by looking at the quality and impact of work, not when or where it was done

Tools and Rituals That Help

You do not need a massive tech stack, but a few well-chosen tools make a big difference:

  • Project management tools (Asana, Linear, Notion) to keep work visible and organized
  • Documentation platforms to capture decisions, processes, and institutional knowledge
  • Collaborative whiteboards (Miro, FigJam) for brainstorming and visual thinking
  • Feedback and engagement tools to take the pulse of your team and surface issues early

The tools matter less than how consistently you use them. Pick a small set and commit to them.

The Manager's Ongoing Challenge

Supporting remote and hybrid teams is not a problem you solve once. It is a practice you refine continuously. What works for a team of five may not work for fifteen. What works this quarter may need adjustment next quarter.

The best hybrid managers are the ones who keep asking their teams what is working and what is not, and then follow through on what they hear. The format of work has changed. The fundamentals of good management, clear communication, genuine care, and fair treatment, have not.

Your role as a manager is to make sure every person on your team, regardless of where they sit, has what they need to do their best work and feel like they belong.

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